Love: What has to come unconditionally.Adolescence, the stage of life where we discover pretty much a lot.
And of the many things we find out, we find love, or what we perceive as love.
Many of us are wrong about love.
Love's a strong word, and many people, especially kids like us, use it for the wrongest reasons.
The first thing that comes to our minds when we talk about love is that special someone; being in a relationship.
Which of us has ever thought of our parents and what they've done for us?
Have our parents ever asked of anything when they made us?
Have they ever asked for money when they paid for all our expenses?
I'm sure most parents don't, because they love us.
Perhaps they'd expect us to take care of them in the future, when they are frail, and disabled.
In return for the times that they took care of us when we were weak: an entire lifetime.
Would it be too much to be asked of us, to take good care of them for just that short while?
No one can repay parental love.
It is unconditional.
It is priceless.
No, I'm not here to talk about filial piety today.
I want to say that love is unconditional.
If you love someone for what he/she is giving you now, it's not love.
If you're in a relationship and you feel that the other half is obligated to do something for you to keep the relationship going, it probably isn't love.
When you love someone, you don't expect them to pull a chair for you.
You don't expect them to give you roses every special occasion.
You don't abandon them when they are weak, you give them a helping hand.
Yes, there is nothing wrong with expecting that out of a relationship.
But if the reasons that led to the end of a relationship are things like that, you can go fuck yourself.
You don't deserve to be in a relationship at all.
Sorry for the outburst, HAHAHA.
Hi, I'm finally back from the hectic 4 days of work at IT Show 2011.
The 4 days were pretty much the worst job experience ever.
I got cuts, bruises and an injured eye after the 4 days.
Spent $200 on medical fees to date, FML.
I have little of my pay left -.-
I guess I shall not keep this long.
Formspring Q&A!
Q: hi zh ur blog is awesomeeeeeeee ^_^ #1 fan here! hahaha
A: Hi stalkerrrrr.
That's all.
Till next time when my eyes feel better.
Bye!